Will the "perfect new paint" solution have a chain reaction in the opposite direction? Sharis (search engine optimizer/long-distance text content creator, and also the founder of the self-media website " Sharis Nomadic Diary ", advocating how to find a balance between busy life and work, and live out what you want life, become a better version of yourself) Life is like a stalled train. We are rushing to our destination all the time.
When we reach our whatsapp database destination, we are urged by countless social expectations and values ​​to get on the train quickly, just because most people are rushing to the next station. The cycle of getting on and off the bus, until one day we thought: Get off at this stop, can we enjoy the scenery and do what I want to do? listen to your inner voice There was a time when I was very disgusted by my friends asking me "what are you doing" and "where are you?". I didn't directly show my inner disgust, but I didn't want to respond positively. At that time,
I always thought, this is my life, why should I explain it to others? After years of washing, I realized that these disgust and impatience stemmed from inner fear and anxiety. At that time, I chose to avoid facing it. Naturally, I thought that others had touched the bottom line. In fact, I didn’t even know where I was or what I was doing. What, I clearly want to understand myself, but I choose to ignore it again and again. My 30-year-old anxiety had quietly sprouted as early as 25 or 6 years old, and I was constantly struggling between a stable life and a desire to seek change.